What helps you get your bearings?

A selfie of Caroline in Hyde Park. It's day 3, so she knows where she is and where she's going :-)

For 3 days recently, part of my daily commute was a walk from London Victoria to Marble Arch, through a sunny Hyde Park.

It’s not a route I’ve done before, and it’s safe to say I’m not a natural navigator. I’m terrible at finding my way to new places on my own the first time (and often a few times after that!).

In the past I’ve judged myself for this. It felt like a weakness I should be able to fix.

Now I use Maps.

Day 1 - I was glued to it.

Day 2 - I checked, then found my way on my own.

Day 3 - I didn’t even need to get my phone out.

When we’re going somewhere different for the first time - in real life, or in our life - it can feel like we should be able to figure it out on our own.

To get from A to B without help.

To find our own way.

But, it’s absolutely fine to find a way to make it easier. To have something to:

  • Point you in the right direction.

  • Keep you on track and stop you getting lost.

  • Help you get your bearings.

Because, once you’ve got them, you can find your own way more easily.

Wishing you all a week of heading in the right direction,